There is a rather sad idea being passed around by some whites who say that they can’t begin to understand what someone black goes through with respect to racism in America.
Well, that is just not true for anyone who is white and married to someone black. They feel that same pain and go through many of the same racist experiences with that person.
In my video I give a number of examples of this. But the bottom line is that if you elected to avoid being in a relationship with someone black you have to ask yourself to what degree that was an expression of your own racism. Don’t blame being white but do blame how you see yourself as a white person.